Do You Know How to Pray for Unbelievers?

Who would you most like to see come to know Christ as their Savior? Your spouse? One of your children? A dear friend? A grandchild? 

If you’re like me, every time you think of this person, your heart aches. You know if they don’t accept Christ, they’ll die one day and spend eternity in hell. This frightens me—that someone I love could spend eternity separated from God (and from me).

May it never be!

But the reality is that one day we’ll all stand before the judgment seat of Christ and give an account. The entrance exam to heaven has one question: 

The entrance exam to heaven has one question: 
Who are you trusting in?

There’s only one right answer: “I’m trusting in Jesus Christ as my Savior.”

For years I couldn’t give this answer. The best I could do was hope my good works outweighed my bad works on judgment day. Some of my acquaintances, friends, and loved ones can’t give this answer because they haven’t yet come to faith in Jesus Christ. They’re still trusting in their works to get them into heaven. They don’t understand the truth of Ephesians 2:8-9:

“For by grace you have been saved, through faith, and that not of yourselves, it is a gift of God, not of works, lest any man shall boast.”

Because I love them, I witness to them, serve them, and do my best to demonstrate God’s love to them. But the most important thing I can do is to pray for them.

And what do I pray?

I ask God to open their hearts to believe. Scripture tells us that no one comes to God unless the Father draws him (John 6:65), so it makes sense to ask God to draw our loved ones to himself and open their hearts to believe.

The book of Acts tells of a woman named Lydia. She was a religious woman who was trying to worship God as best she knew how. But she hadn’t trusted Jesus as her Savior. Paul shared the Gospel with her, like we should with our unbelieving loved ones. And then something miraculous happened. Acts 16:14 describes it this way:

“The Lord opened her heart to respond to Paul’s message.” 

Apart from God opening a person’s heart to believe, the message of the Gospel falls on deaf ears. The spiritually dead cannot receive the life-giving truths of Scripture unless God opens their hearts. This is the secret of praying for unbelievers. This is what we should pray for.

The message of Acts 16 is simple: Pray for the people you love who don’t know Christ as their Savior. And when you pray, ask God to open their hearts. Pray and don’t stop.

“For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you confess and are saved” (Rom. 10:10).

Who are you praying for today?

If you leave your loved one’s first name in the comment box below, I’d be honored to pray for them.


A Word for Your Day — 66 Devotions to Refresh Your Mind

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Allow God’s Word to change your life, one word at a time! Lori Hatcher’s newest book, a 66-day devotional highlights one relevant, sometimes unexpected, word from each book of the Bible. Lori, the best-selling author of Refresh Your Faith and Refresh Your Prayers, shares simple—but never simplistic—truths. She continues to remind us that every part of Scripture is active, alive, and applicable. 

From beginning in Genesis to new in Revelation, ponder each significant word as you move through your day and allow God to transform your heart and mind.

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